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Black English第二节 黑人英语The black couple aly had eight children, and Lula May was pregnantwith her ninth. Finally she convinced her husband to get a vasectomy.一对黑人夫妇已有八个小孩,而鲁拉·梅又怀了第九个小孩,最后她说了她先生去做男性绝育手术On the morning of the operation, she was surprised to see her husbandputting on a tuxedo and getting into a limousine the short ride to thehospital.手术的早晨,她惊讶地看见她老公穿着礼,乘坐一辆礼车到不远的医院去;Say, honey, what all this about?; asked Lula May.;亲爱的,这是怎么一回事啊?鲁拉·梅问道;;Baby, if you gonna be important, you gotta look important.;宝贝,如果你想当名大人物的话,就要让人一看就知道你很重要!; 396英语学习笔记:like the cat that ate the canary 偷吃了腥的猫,形容人得意的样子a cat nap 打个盹儿a fat cat 口语中指“大亨,阔佬”let the cat out of the bag 泄露秘密,说走了嘴He was sitting there grinning like the cat that ate the canary.他坐在那儿笑得洋洋得意Im going to try to squeeze in a cat nap bee my next shift starts.下回轮班前我要挤时间打个盹儿The cat has got your tongue.瞬间说不出话来,不知道说什么好更多实用有趣节目 搜索微微信:早安英文 830Nothing good can come of telling your spouse ;you sound just like your mother.;若你对你的伴侣说,“你说话和你妈一个德性”,看吧,那之后准没好事When youre married or in a long-term relationship, some things are better left unsaid. Below, marriage therapists and other experts share phrases and statements to strike from your vocabulary now. 假如你结婚了或处于长期的恋爱关系中,有些话最好烂在肚子里婚姻治疗师和其他专家们建议,下面这九句话最好别再说了1. ;You never do the dishes. You always just leave them sitting there.;“你从来不洗碗,总在那堆着”The dishes are a placeholder pretty much anything here. Whatever the issue, using accusatory blanket terms like ;never; and ;always; tends to end the same way every time: with you and your boo engaged in an overblown argument. Plus, there a good chance your generalization is wrong, said Samantha Rodman, a psychologist in Takoma Park, Maryland.这里的“碗”可以换成很多其他东西不管是什么,用“从不”、“总是”等一概而论地指责只会带来一个结果:那就是言过其实、夸大其词的争吵而且,美国马里兰州蒙哥马利学院塔科马公园分校的心理学家萨曼莎·罗德曼说,这种一概而论的说法很可能是错误的;Nothing is black and white so telling a partner that she never on time or he always selfish cant be right,; she told The Huffington Post. ;These types of statements only lead to a prosecutor-defendant dynamic, which is not what you want in your marriage.;罗德曼在《赫芬顿邮报上说,“凡事都无绝对,所以,说你的伴侣从来不准时或总是很自私,这都是片面的说这种话只能引发一场激烈的辩论,这在婚姻中并不是你所想要的”. ;You sound exactly like your mother.; “你说话和你妈一个德性”When arguing, stick to the issue at hand and keep the focus on the two of you. Introducing nasty comparisons to your in-laws is unfair and ultimately a diversion from your problems, said Sharon Gilchrest ONeill, a marriage and family therapist and the author of A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage.在争吵时,记得就事论事,不要把矛头指向你俩以外的人莎郎·吉尔彻雷斯特·奥尼尔(Sharon Gilchrest ONeill)是一位婚姻家庭治疗师,也是《幸福婚姻小指南(A Short Guide to a Happy Marriage)的作者她说,把你的亲家拿来比较,说些难听的话,这是不公平的,最终也会让你忘了原本要解决的问题;Mentioning parents can easily become mean-spirited attacks that interfere with the couple ability to address the underlying issues,; she told HuffPost. 她在《赫芬顿邮报上说,“伴侣吵架时提及对方父母很可能成为一种刻薄的攻击,不利于两个人解决根本问题” 3.;You think youre better than everyone else!;“你以为别人都不如你吗!”Never put words in your partner mouth or in this case, thoughts in their head. There no way of knowing what someone is feeling or thinking, so keep the assumptions to yourself, said Becky Whetstone, a marriage and family therapist in Little Rock, Arkansas.永远别对你的伴侣说这句话,也不要让他她这样想美国阿肯色大学小石城分校的婚姻家庭治疗师贝基·惠茨通(Becky Whetstone)说,你不可能知道别人的感受或想法,所以,这句话还是不要说出口为好;These statements are aggravating because your spouse knows that what youre accusing them of is not true,; she said. ;What youre saying suggests you dont think very highly of your S.O. It a double dose of pain in one sentence.;她说,“这样的话很让人恼火,因为你的伴侣知道你的指责是不正确的,而且这么说表示你对你的伴侣并不满意这一句话带来的伤害是双重的” . ;Do I look like Ive put on weight?; “我是不是胖了?”Questions about weight or changes in looks are the ;oldest grenades in the marriage script,; said Robyn Wahlgast, a dating and relationship coach woman.萝缤·沃尔加斯特(Robyn Wahlgast)是一位女性婚恋专家,她说,关于体重和外貌变化的问题是“婚姻中一枚最传统的手榴弹”;What you really mean by asking this is, I know Ive put on weight. Im unhappy about how I look and I need you to say that youre OK with my current state.; she said. ;These types of questions are all about side-stepping personal responsibility, plus they ce your partner into an enabling role.;“问这样的问题,你其实是想说,‘我知道我胖了,我对我的外表很不满意,我想听你说,就算这样你也喜欢我‘问这样的问题纯粹是回避个人责任,而且还把责任强加到了你的伴侣身上”5. ;Have you put on a few pounds?;“你是不是胖了?”Blunt, negative remarks to your spouse about his or her appearance are also out of line.对伴侣的外表进行直接批评也是不合适的;Unconstructive criticism of physical appearance is as bad as it gets,; Whetstone said. ;It painful because youre suggesting that your partner isnt good enough or that theyre less than or defective.;惠茨通说,“对于外表的非建设性批评很不合适,这对你的伴侣是一种伤害,因为这表明你的伴侣不够好,或者有缺陷”6. ;Youre a horrible parent, bwinner, lover...;“作为家长(或一家之主、爱人)你真是差劲”Put-downs centered around your spouse family or occupational roles are particularly cruel, said M. Gary Neuman, a psychotherapist based in Miami Beach, Florida.佛罗里达州迈阿密滩的心理治疗师加里·纽曼(M. Gary Neuman)说,对于你的伴侣的家庭或职业身份进行贬低是一件特别残忍的事;Negative statements about our self-identities are devastating,; he said. ;These roles are so important and tender. When theyre questioned, we feel completely torn down. It becomes hard to get statements like this.; 他说,“对于自我认同的消极评价是毁灭性的这些身份认同很重要,也很脆弱在自我认同受到质疑时,我们会受到很大的打击,也很难原谅这些话” 7. ;Ugh, I hate when you do that.; (Said in front of friends or family.)“哎,我讨厌你这样做”(在亲朋好友面前)Putting your spouse down in front of others is a huge no-no in a relationship, said Whetstone.惠茨通说,当众批评对方是伴侣关系中的一大禁忌;In this example, you are gathering people against your spouse—and what is worse than that? It is hard to recover from such a boundary violation,; she said. ;It causes resentment and a lack of trust.;她说,“假如你集结一帮人和你的伴侣唱反调,有什么比这更糟糕?这是一种难以原谅的越界,会导致憎恨和信任的丧失” 8. ;I barely know him—he just someone I work with.; “我和他不熟,他只是个同事;It almost inevitable that you or your partner will develop a small, innocent crush on someone at some point during your marriage. If that happens, be upfront about it. Dont try to sweep it under the rug with a statement that minimizes your feelings, said Wahlgast.婚后,难免你或你的伴侣会不经意对别人产生好感假如这种情况真的出现了,要坦诚面对沃尔加斯特说,不要试图轻描淡写,遮遮掩掩;The best way to neutralize the potential destructiveness of your crush is to briefly and simply acknowledge it to your spouse,; she said. ;Try saying to your husband, I know it sounds ridiculous, but I have a bit of a crush on that new consultant. He so funny—his sense of humor reminds me of yours.;她说,“要想避免这种好感可能带来的破坏,最好的方法是向你的伴侣简短而直接地坦诚你的想法你可以试着对丈夫说,‘听起来可能荒谬,但我对那个新来的顾问还挺有好感他挺有意思,他的幽默感让我想到了你’”Though it may be an uncomtable subject to broach, ultimately, Wahlgast said being transparent about your feelings ;will create more openness with your partner. Youll each feel more comtable bringing up other taboo subjects in a kind and respectful way.;尽管谈论这个话题可能会让人不舒,但沃尔加斯特说,终究来看,坦诚你的感受“可以让你和伴侣之间的关系更加透明你们今后都会更加舒地以一种相互尊重的方式谈论其他禁忌话题” 9. ;You shouldnt feel that way.;“你不该那么想”There nothing more belittling or condescending than telling your spouse what he should or shouldnt be feeling in any given situation, Rodman said.罗德曼说,告诉你的伴侣在某种情况下该怎么想、不该怎么想,这是一种特别居高临下的方式;There is no right or wrong way someone to feel,; she said. ;Feelings are what they are; try to understand your partner and be curious about his experience rather than dismissing what you dont understand.;她说,“感受不分对错,感受是客观存在的,要试着理解伴侣,对他的经历保持好奇,而不是对你所不理解的东西表示轻视” 988讲解本期暂时没有文本,敬请谅解 1

Talking Cow第单元 会说话的母牛A man from the city was driving down a country road when his car stalled near a cow field.有个城市来的人开着车徜徉在乡间小路上,经过一座母牛场的车子却抛锚了The driver, getting out to see what was the matter, noticed one of the cows looking at him. ;I believe it your radiator,; said the cow.司机下车查看哪里出问题时,注意到有只母牛在看着他“我想问题出在散热器”那只母牛说道The man nearly jumped right out of his city slicker britches! He ran to a farm house and knocked on the door. ;A cow just gave me advice about my car!; he shouted.这个人差点没从身上穿的那件时髦马裤中跳出来!他跑向农舍,边敲门边大喊着:“有只母牛刚指点我车子哪里出故障!”The farmer nonchalantly learned out beyond the doorframe to glance down the field. ;The cow with big black spots on it?; the farmer asked slowly.农夫冷冷地靠在门框后,把农场打量了一遍;是那只身上有两个大黑斑的母牛吗?;农夫慢悠悠问道;Yes! Yes! That the one!; the excited man replied.“没错!没错!就是那只!”激动的男子回答道;Oh, Well. That Ethel.; the farmer said, turning back to the man. ;Dont pay any attention to her. She doesnt know a thing about cars.;“哎呀,那是艾瑟儿啦,”农夫转头对那人说道:“不要理她,她对车子根本一窍不通” 61

被誉为澳洲版“乱世佳人”的《澳洲乱世情(原名《澳大利亚)近日确定于年1月日在我国上映由《红磨坊导演巴兹·鲁尔曼执导,集合两位来自澳大利亚的好莱坞明星——奥斯卡影后妮可·基德曼和年度性感男人休·杰克曼主演该片讲述了一段史诗般的爱情故事,片中风景之美堪称是澳大利亚宣传片 悉尼歌手Angela Little(别名Ophelia of the Spirits)被选为电影主题曲的演唱者,歌曲By The Boab Tree由Felix Meagher、Baz Luhrmann以及Angela Little本人参与创作Ophelia of the Spirits的个人首张EP于月6日发行,第二张EP将于年年初投放市场By The Boab Tree-Ophelia of the SpiritsSing and I will hear youNo matter where you areA song to light the darkest nightAnd guide me from afarAnd I will never be aloneNow I know you're somewhereYou're everywhere to meYou're the colour in the skyA reason to believeAnd when the rain falls downYou tell a storyAnd I will hear youAlways near youBy the boab treeLay your arms around meLike the falling rainLet the feeling drown meAnd life begins againAnd I will never be afraidNow I know you're somewhereYou're everywhere to meThe warming of the sun uponThe earth beneath my feetAnd when the rain falls downYou tell a storyAnd I will hear youAlways near youBy the boab treeOh you are somewhereYou're everywhere to meYou're the colour in the skyAnd you're the earth beneath my feetAnd when the rain falls downYou tell a storyAnd I will hear youAlways near youBy the boab tree 61885

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