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2018年04月26日 00:00:11 | 作者:华龙新闻 | 来源:新华社
During the doctor#39;s periodic visit to my elderly mother, I told him that Mother would be celebrating her 98th birthday in few days. Delighted by the news, he bent down and gave her a kiss for the occasion. He then announced that he, too, would be celebrating a birthday in few days and asked for a kiss in return. When he left, my mother shook her head in disgust. ;Can you imagine, ; she said. ;Seventy dollars and I had to kiss him too!;医生按期来探视我的老母。我告诉他母亲不几天就要庆祝她98岁的生日了。医生听了也很高兴,为此,他弯下腰来亲了她一下。然后他说不几天他也要庆祝自己的生日,并要求她还他一个吻。 医生走后,我母亲厌恶地摇摇头。“你能想象吗,”她说,“付了他70元,我还得亲他!” /201304/234111This is not an easy article to write. I have been hurt by someone very close to me and I know that I need to forgive that person, but it is easier said than done. Intellectually, I know that until I can forgive, I will stew in my resentment and hurt - harming myself, not the person who hurt me. I could seek revenge, but countering a wrong with a wrong is… well, wrong.What to do?As I reside in the limbo between true forgiveness and painful hurt, I struggle with the tug-of-war between heart and head. I won’t seek revenge, but I am also not y to forgive despite the realization that forgiving is precisely what I have to do to stop hurting. People don’t ask to be hurt, but the offended must be the ones to initiate the resolve.Forgiveness is the pill we must swallow when we suffer from hurt inflicted by others. We must move past the feelings of a hurt-felt heart and use our reason, our mind, to guide us to healing. Age, maturity, teaches us to “let it go,” “forgive and forget,” but sound reason does not manifest a quick cure. It does, however, keep us from making a bigger mistake. The mind must win the tug-of-war between heart and head. To do otherwise, we would be hurting ourselves even more.How do we make the head win?When our heart and mind are conflicted, thinking more about the offense will only exasperate the situation; we need to distract the mind. Our thoughts need to move on, get off-track, and the best way to distract the mind is to busy the hands.Performing tasks like cooking, gardening, car maintenance, writing, anything that requires the mind to think about what the hands are doing will give our heart and head the time to eclipse the pain and coalesce into a more productive, positive realm. Manual exercise restores the balance to life necessary to heal. The sooner we become productive, the quicker we will be able to forgive. Busying the hands also gives us the time to move past the initial harm. We still may feel hurt, but the hurt won’t feel as deep. The urge for revenge will pass; the head eventually wins.If you’ve been hurt and find yourself in the tug-of-war between heart and head it may be helpful to take the Forgiveness Test created by Dr. Susan Brown as part of her doctoral dissertation at Fuller Theological Seminary. It is a 14-question, multiple-choice test which helps to identify personal thoughts and behaviors regarding forgiveness. I took the test and discovered I’m half-way there.What I neglected to consider (as I wallowed in my self-pity) was the source of the problem. Question 13, “I looked for the source of the problem and tried to correct it,” caused a light bulb to go off in my head. Again, the heart was clouding my rational thought. The test made me realize that if I don’t want to be hurt by this person again, I should look for the source of the problem and work to correct it. Being hurt involves two people. Forgiveness is what I do, but that is only half the solution. Resolving the source of the hurt involves both of us. That is what’s necessary for true reconciliation and lasting peace...the ability to truly forgive and forget, forever.I’m glad I took the test and I’m glad I wrote this article. I took the time to busy my hands. I don’t feel as hurt now as I did when I began writing. I’m getting closer to true forgiveness and realize I have more work to do before all is well again. In the end, my head won, but so did my heart. 这是一篇难以书写的文章.曾经,我被我很亲密的人伤害过,我知道我得原谅他"她,但这一切说起来很容易,做起来好难.理智上我知道我若不能原谅,伤害我自己的是我内心的怨恨与烦恼,而不是那个人.我曾想过报复,但这只是错上加错…..是的,是错的.要做什么?当我徘徊在真正原谅与痛苦伤害的边缘时,我正经历着内心与头脑之间激烈的斗争.我不会去报复,但我也没有做好去原谅的准备,虽然事实上原谅是停止我伤痛的最佳办法.人们都不想被伤害,但是受伤了的人就必须找办法治疗.当我们被人家伤害时,原谅是我们必须选择去用的良药.我们必须消除内心那些彻心的痛楚,在我们的理智与意识的指引下治疗我们的心灵.经历过伤害的人告诉我们要“让它随风而去”,要“原谅然后忘记”,但这不是我们能进行快速治疗的充分理由.然而,它可以防止我们犯下更大的错误.头脑的意识必须赢得这场内心与头脑的斗争的胜利,否则,我们只会把自己伤害得更深……如何做才能是头脑获胜?当我们的内心与头脑意识发生冲突时,过多地想着攻击对方反而把事情弄得更槽.我们需要分散我们的注意力,我们的思想必须得沿着轨道动起来,而分散注意力的好方法是让自己的双手忙起来.做一些烹饪,护理一下花园,保养一下汽车,写一些东西.做任何需要我们意识去指导的事情,这会让我们的内心与头脑有一定的时间去冲淡痛楚,合并更多积极有效的思想领域.身体运动能恢复生活的平衡,这是身心恢复所需要的.我们越快恢复效率,我们就能更快地去原谅.使自己的双手忙起来也能给予我们时间去除最初的伤痛.也许我们仍感到痛苦,但那痛苦已经没有原来那么深了.报复的冲动没有了,头脑会最终获得胜利.假如你被伤害了并发现自己正处于内心与头脑的斗争中,你可以尝试做一下由Susan Brown士在福乐神学院做士论文时研发的原谅测试,这对你是有用的.测试有14道多项选择题,它能帮助你分清关于原谅的个人思想和行为.当我做完测试时,我发现我已经成功了一半了.我不想去考虑是我问题的根源,因为我完全沉浸在自怜之中.第13道题目“我寻找了问题的根源并设法去改正了它”像一个小灯泡照耀在我的脑海里.再一次,内心笼罩着我的理智思想.这个测试让我明白,如果我不想再一次被那个人伤害,我就必须找到问题的根源,然后努力去改正它.伤害是相互的.原谅是我需要做的,但这只是解决问题的一半而已.解决伤害的根源需要两个人去努力.这是真正的和解与永远的友好所需要的……需要一种能力去真正地原谅,然后永远忘却.我很高兴我做了这个测试并写下这篇文章.我花了时间让自己的双手忙了起来,我没有像刚写作时那么痛苦了.我离真正原谅更加近了.我意识到.在完全恢复前有许多事情要我去做.到最后,我的头脑获胜了.然而,我的内心也是如此. /200806/41879

Mr.Chairman,  Ladies and gentlemen,  董事长先生:  女士们、先生们:   Happy New Year to you all!  各位新年快乐!  On behalf of all the members of my group, I'd like to thank you, Mr. Chairman, for your gracious invitation for us to attend such an enjoyable New Year party in such a magnificently decorated hall.  我谨代表我们一行的全体成员,感谢董事长的盛情邀请,使我们来到装饰得如此华丽的大厅,参加如此快乐的新年晚会。  The New Year's Day is a very happy and joyous occasion. It is really a wonderful time of the year. There is something in this holiday which appeals to everyone. That is, warmth, love, care, union, harmony and dedication of mankind. This is the spirit of the New Year holiday.  元旦是一个十分欢愉的节日,这的确是一年中的良辰佳时。元旦对我们所有人都有其引人之处,那就是人间的温暖、爱恋、关怀、团聚、融洽和奉献。这就是元旦的精神所在。  Of course, we really enjoy the delicious wine and excellent food served here. Yes, the roast turkey is simply delicious. Also, the music is superb. If I were a better dancer, I could have enjoyed the party more. I like everything here, but more important, I enjoyed meeting and talking to you, getting to know you, and sharing the memorable time together.  当然,我们很喜欢这里的美酒佳肴。是的,烤火鸡的味道好极了。音乐也非常优美。要是我会跳舞的话,想必会过得更加快乐。我喜欢这里的一切,而更为重要的是,我喜欢同你们聚会,同你们交谈,增进了解,共度难忘的时光。  I am deeply grateful for this nice arrangement. The party was perfectly organized and I enjoyed every minute of it. I'm sure I will remember this great occation for many years to come.  对于这次美好的安排,我感激不尽。晚会组织得完美无缺,令人尽兴尽致。我日后一定还会记得这次美好的聚会。  It has been a great year for all of us in terms of our harmonious business relationship. Our joint venture has had a remarkable sales growth. I hope we will be able to maintain this practical cooperative relationship and make the coming new year a more fruitful year.  就我们融洽的商务关系而言,今年对我们所有人来说都是一个好年度。我们合资企业的销售额显著增长。我希望我们能保持这种务实的合作关系,使明年的业绩更加辉煌。  I would like to toast with you to this happy occation at the end of the year.  让我们在这年终岁末之际,共同举杯,祝贺这喜庆佳节。  Thank you very much again for this wonderful party. We had a great evening.  我为有幸参加这次精的聚会,再次向您深表谢意。我们度过了一个美好的夜晚。  Happy New Year once again to all of you!   我再一次祝各位新年快乐! /200803/28899

这是关于一个女孩、女人、女性的成长漫画On A Claire Day:亲情、友情、爱情;家庭,朋友、婚姻,工作,生活……一切的一切~今日嘱咐:其实,万圣节就是最大的西方传统Cosplay节!只不过Cos那些动漫人物,就太普通了;直接Play你老板试试看……!译者:koogle /201306/243726

Running a red light闯红灯Two guys were riding down the street in a car. They come to a red light. The driver runs the red light. The passenger cries out ;Hey, why did you do that?; The driver says, ;Don#39;t worry about it, my brother does it all the time.;两个男人开车前行,路遇一红灯,司机呼啸而过。乘客大叫:“嘿!你干吗这样做?”司机说:“别担心,我兄弟经常这么干。”They came to another red light, and the same thing happens. The passenger is visibly upset and threatens to get out of the car the next chance he gets. At the next light, which is green, the driver slams on his brakes and comes to a screeching halt(停).又遇一红灯,司机依旧呼啸而过。乘客显然愤怒了,威胁说如果下次再闯红灯他就下车。路遇一绿灯,司机猛踩刹车,车子嘎然而止。The passenger is confused and asks, ;What the heck is wrong with you? You ran two red lights but you stop at the green one.;乘客迷惑了,问道:“你有病吧?刚才闯了两个红灯,现在绿灯了你倒停了。”The driver responds: ;My brother might be coming from the other way!;司机回答:“我兄弟可能会从那边过来。” /201302/227121

You’ll meet many guys on your path to finding the one who#39;s right for you, but you should avoid a few types at all cost. They might start out as perfectly decent men while they’re trying to get your attention, but once they show their true colors, you may want to head for the hills. Here are a few of the worst offenders.在生活中你要遇人无数才能找到你的真命天子,但你应该千方百计避免几种类型。在他们试图得到你的注意时他们可能表现成非常体面的男人,但一旦他们露出真面目,你可能想快点跑掉。这里有一些最糟糕的冒犯者。THE MOOCHThis is the guy who never seems to go anywhere with his wallet after he takes you out once or twice. Whether you#39;re taking in a movie, going out for dinner or just grabbing a slice of pizza, he will always plead poor and ask you to pay.Paying for some things is OK, but if you#39;re with a guy who never has any money (or just has an aversion to spending his own), get out while you can -- or at least before you go broke.乞讨者这就是那个在他带你出去一两次之后似乎永远不会与他的钱包去任何地方的人。不管你是去看一场电影,出去吃顿饭或者只是抓起一片披萨,他总是会哭穷并要你付钱。给一些东西付钱还好,但如果你跟一个从来没有什么钱的家伙在一起(或者只是排斥花自己钱),在你有能力时——或者至少在你破产前外出约会。THE LAZY SLOBThis guy may charm you at first with his ambitions and list of projects that he plans, but that will get old fast once you notice that all he ever seems to do is play games and order takeout. If he never has anything new to report in terms of job hunting or physical activity of any kind, and he always has stains on his clothing, move on or risk becoming his mother.The lazy slob has no motivation or intention of ever getting a real job.懒惰的笨蛋这家伙可能一开始用他的雄心壮志以及他计划的一堆项目列表来迷惑你,但一旦你注意到他似乎所做的事就是玩视频游戏和叫外卖时,年龄增长很快。如果在找工作或任何形式的体育活动方面他没有任何新消息,而他的衣上总是有污渍,离开他或者冒着风险成为他的母亲。懒惰的笨蛋没有获得一份真正工作的动机或打算。THE OVERACHIEVERThe complete opposite to the lazy slob is the type A overachiever. While this guy looks great on paper (good job, six-figure income, sweet condo), he will never be around to hang out with you. When he is around, he will talk only about work. He#39;ll sweep you off your feet with expensive dinners and lavish gifts, but as soon as things get serious, he#39;ll go back to focusing solely on his career.Do you really want a guy who pays more attention to his stocks than to you? We didn#39;t think so.一流的男人与懒惰的笨蛋完全相反的是一流的成功者。虽然这家伙表面上看起来很棒(好工作,六位数的薪水,舒适的公寓),但是他永远不会来跟你约会。当他在旁边时他将只谈工作。他会用昂贵的晚餐和奢华的礼物来让你拜倒,但一旦事情变得严肃,他会回去完全专注到他的事业中。你真的想要一个重视他的股票比重视你还多的男人吗?我们不这么认为。THE BIG KIDSome guys never seem to grow up. As charming as they seem at first, dating someone who is immature can be frustrating. All he wants to do is have fun, which is great (he#39;s adventurous and has great date ideas), but when you settle down and move in together, he#39;ll never want to talk about ;boring; things like finances, rent and chores.If you#39;re looking for long-term love, the big kid is not your go-to guy.大男孩有些人似乎永远不会长大。起初他们看起来很迷人,约会不成熟的人会令人沮丧。所有他想做的事就是玩得开心,这很棒(他有冒险精神和很棒的约会点子),但是当你安定下来,搬到一起住,他绝对不想谈论诸如财政、租金和家务之类的“无聊”事。如果你正在寻找一段长久的恋爱,大男孩不是你要找的男人。 /201305/237585

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